When we remember Beth Lynelle Henke Benjamin Barr, a word that
comes to mind is “strength.” She was strong in her faith, strong in her choices
and decisions, and strong in her opinions, feelings, and views. It was that
strength that helped her fight a 4 year-long battle with cancer, raise four
active boys into exceptional men, and survive watching them, and her husband,
go off to war and serve our country in battles all over the world. Beth was
little, but she was a force. That’s one of the the qualities Carl fell in love
with first. He knew he needed to marry a strong woman who would challenge, grow
and support him. What he couldn’t have imagined was how fiercely,
unconditionally she would love him and their family all the days of her life.
Beth was born in Plentywood, Montana on December 16, 1959 to Don
and Mona Henke. Beth is preceded in death by her father, Donald Henke, her
adoptive father, Donald Benjamin, and beloved grandparents. She is survived by
her husband of 33 years, Carl Barr, her mother, Mona Benjamin, her children,
grandchildren, and sisters. Her children are Brent Barr of Nampa, Idaho; Ben,
Alisha, and grandchild, Aiden Barr of Snoqualmie, Washington; Brian, Laura and
grandchildren Annarose, Daralyn, and Raelee Barr of Nampa, Idaho; and, Bradley
and Missy Barr of Olympia, Washington. The sisters she leaves behind are Cindy
Arnoldus of La Grande, Oregon; Jane Goode of La Grande, Oregon; Gail Kurpgeweit
of Issaquah, Washington; and Donna Benjamin of Nampa, Idaho. She is survived by
numerous loved cousins, friends, aunts, and uncles.
Beth spent her childhood and most of her teenage years in Montana,
then moved to Spokane, Washington, where she worked as a construction office
manager, met Carl, and raised a family. In early 2000, she and her family,
including her parents, moved to Nampa, Idaho. She loved Nampa and flourished
there because of the incredible friends and family who surrounded her and her
family there, the home she and Carl built together, and it is where she most
enjoyed time with her beloved grandchildren.
When we think of Beth, besides her strength, we
think of her love of God, family and bringing people together. Beth, as a young
woman, travelled around the world, organized rafting and camping trips for 100
plus people, enjoyed snow skiing, water skiing, and throwing get-togethers
where young people could laugh, play games, have fun, and meet others. Wherever
Beth was, there was likely to be a crowd of people enjoying her hospitality and
zest for life.
Beth leaves this life on earth too soon for those who love her,
but our comfort comes in knowing she is in peace with her father in heaven, who
she served every day of her life. Our grief can only be comforted in knowing
the pure joy we know she is now experiencing.
FUNERAL SERVICE
Monday, May
7
th
at 10 am
Alden-Waggoner Funeral
Chapel
5400 Fairview
Avenue
Boise, ID
83706
After
the service we will have a procession to the Idaho Veteran’s Cemetery
At
the Idaho Veteran’s Cemetery, all are welcome. The Veteran’s Cemetery has a
very special setup so all services are in a very accessible place (not by the
grave site). There is also great parking and plenty of room for any who wish to
come.
INTERMENT
Monday, May 7th
at 1 pm (arrive 10 to 15 minutes early)
Idaho Veteran’s Cemetery
10100 N Horseshoe
Bend Rd
Boise, ID
83714
There may be some who would prefer to go directly to the potluck that is no
problem.
POTLUCK TO
FOLLOW INTERMENT
Foothills Christian
Church
9655 W State
St
Garden City, ID
83714