Em was born in Castle Shannon, PA on March 1, 1918
Died in Boise, Idaho on March 6, 2018
He had just turned 100 years old!
SIBLINGS: Catharina, born & deceased in Europe
Steve, born
& deceased in Europe
Ted, born in Galicia, came
to USA before 1918, deceased
Ann,
born in USA, deceased
Em,
deceased
Mary
Bokman (Bob), both deceased
Joe
born in McKinleyville, deceased
John,
living in MN
When Em was 9 years old his mother, Stephanie Wachnowska
Ondrechen, died.
Em’s father,
Constantine Ondrechen was a blacksmith by trade who worked for Standard Mining
Company, a coal mining firm.
He had a
variety of “friend” housekeepers come in for several months. After that the
oldest sister, Ann, took over. When it became apparent that the job was too
much for Ann, Em’s younger sister, Mary took over the responsibilities of
cooking and cleaning for her siblings and their dad.
At about the age of 7 years, Mary began
preparing meals for the family and doing the laundry. When Em and his siblings
picked berries from the hillside and brought them to Mary, she would bake up a
pie. The kids complained that one pie was too small when cut into pieces, so
Mary started making a whole pie for each of her 3 brothers.
Mary took an outside job cleaning a home
about 7 miles away. When Mary left her home for her job, walking all the way,
the boys were on their own to scavenger food during the day, relishing Mary’s
meal in the evening. Constantine
considered marrying one of the friend helpers, but the kids voted it down. He
never remarried. Em thinks Mary handled the household duties for several years.
Then the kids were on their own.
Went to elementary school in McKinleyville, then Bethany
High School in Bethany, WV
Dropped out of
high school and went to work for Standard Mining Company in WV at McKinleyville
at age 17.
Worked in the coal mine for 2 years
Mining coal with pick and shovel
Transported by “mantrip” 5 miles
underground.
Mantrip
carried between 50-75 men
Emil had to hunch over, grabbing
knees, prepared for lunch with a bucket of water and a sandwich between his
legs
While working at the mine, Em took a correspondence course
in radio electronics—worked this project for about 8 months
When finished with radio electronics, Em’s dad encouraged
him to go to work at a Civilian Conservation Corps (CCC) camp, “Camp
Cranberry”. (Southern WV) Most of Em’s pay was automatically sent home to Em’s
family. Em was able to keep $5 a month.
Em got promoted at CCC camp and then received $12 per month.
Being a leader, Em was able to learn to drive, and was sent
him to “explosives” school,
Drove truck hauling telephone poles
Stayed at CCC camp for 2 years.
Then went home…no work so he joined the Army.
Joined the Army August 23 of 1940
US Army #15 011 834
SGT AGD
RA
Tank Mechanic 660
Marksman M1
Rifle
Sharpshooter Carbine
Good Conduct Medal
America Defense
Service Medal
European African
Middle Eastern Service Medal
Discharge October 6, 1945 from Fort Lewis, WA
First he went to Fort
Knox, KY for basic
training
Sought out radio electronics but nothing available
Decided to pursue mechanic training in Holberg+, MD.
Then went to Fort
Wayne, IN to Baer
Field
Put him in charge of lubrication station.
When Em was at Baer Field, he took leave for about a week,
and went home to Cleveland
to visit his family. During this brief trip he met Grace Pavlik, through his
sister Mary. After one date, knowing he would be stationed abroad during the
war, he proposed to Grace. They were married the same day he proposed, after
having known her 3 days.
On occasion, Em served as a chauffeur to a two star officer,
General Strademaier.
Before the first
event, Em was issued a dress uniform, upgraded with one stripe so he could
enter the Officer’s Club and buy a drink.
At Baer Field, Em worked on motorcycles. Indian and Harley
Davidson.
After motorcycle work, the General asked him if he liked is
work. Said machines were not working and unfixable. General asked him where he
wanted to go. Em said, “Fort Knox” because men work on a variety of different
things. The General said “ that will be no problem.”
In a few weeks Em was transferred to Fort Knox.
At Fort Knox he worked on tanks and trucks.
After a few months, Em was sent to New Jersey to wait for a ship to northern England. He was
on the ship for 3 weeks. During the time at sea ships were targeted by German
submarines. Em was given the job of manning the 20 mm mounted gun. Once, after
manning the gun at night, he went to the mess hall. Cooks were cooking spam.
They had a dozen ovens loaded with spam logs. Men were washing the floor with
limewater as the sea rolled and the ship rocked.
The oven doors flew open and the spam rolled
out of the ovens right into the limewater! Without a second thought, English
cooks threw the spam back into the ovens, limewater and all. The men ate it at
their next meal.
When Em and the other men arrived at northern England, they went on trucks to south England, where
Em lived for about 2 years. From that location, his job was to transport tanks
from northern to southern England.
When the tank transfer was completed, Em and thousands of other military
boarded the Queen Mary and set sail for Japan.
After a couple weeks at sea, the war ended and the Queen
Mary docked in New York.
Everyone got on trains and headed west. Em’s train went to PA. His orders were
to stay in PA until further notice. The men stayed there about 2 weeks, then
continued to Pittsburg, CA. Finally, the military command discharged
them, because the war was indeed over. From there Em got on another train to go
home to Cleveland.
On the return trip, from the window Em saw Indians fishing for salmon. A porter
came through the cars asking, “Does anyone want a salmon steak for dinner?” Em
said yes, and he ate a delicious dinner that night.
When Em arrived in Cleveland
he went directly to Grace’s apartment. He soon got a job repairing electronic
equipment including radios, record players, TVs. The job didn’t pay much. With
the G.I bill, Em went back to school to study TV repair, circuit boards
and
radio. He received a radio-operator
license from the Federal Government. Em went on to work for the Brush Company
34 years.
For several years Em and Grace tried to have a child. After
at least four miscarriages,
William Thomas was born on March 3, 1947. When Bill was very
young, about 3 or 4 years old, Em began teaching him the names of cars. Bill
remembered what Em taught him, and amazed others with his ability to name the
brand of most cars.
During Bill’s upbringing, Em worked two jobs. When Bill
finished elementary school, Em and Grace decided to move from Wainfleet Ave, in Cleveland, near auto
plants and the Bowl Arena. (Bowl Arena was the largest bowling arena in the
world at that time.) They moved to 27674 Hollywood, Westlake, Ohio where they
felt Bill would get a better education.
After completing Westlake
High School, Bill
attended Case Inst. of Technology for one year in 1965.
(This was the first year that women were
admitted.)
Next, Bill went to Kent State for a year, then moved west
and finished his BS in 1970 at Utah State University.
Em and Grace made yearly visits to Bill once
he moved west.
Bill got married in 1972 to Jacque Workman and divorced 3
later (Bill did not want children and Jacque did.) Bill later married Shirley Ewing
on February 22, 1979.
Grace didn’t feel good, but refused to go to the doctor. She
had always wanted o go to Jamaica
so they took two trips to Jamaica
in two years. When hey returned from the second trip, she became very ill. In
the hospital doctors diagnosed her with kidney failure. Em was already retired,
having retired in 1982. Em took Grace to the hospital daily as doctors
attempted to diagnose her ailment. When they diagnosed kidney failure, they
immediately operated on her arm to prepare her for dialysis. Grace’s blood was
like water. Em called Bill to come back, and Grace died within a week, on
August 31, 1983
A few years after Grace’s death, Em moved to Boise, Idaho to
be nearer his son Bill and daughter-in-law Shirley. He immediately starting
going to the Over 40 Club dances and met Eva Louise Maywhoor. Em married Louise
in October, 1986. They took cruises, traveled to Europe and Hawaii, and
traveled extensively throughout the US. Louise died in 2009.
After her death Em stayed in their home, preparing his own
breakfast and lunch and eating each dinner with Bill and Shirley. At 95 was
strong and agile, and could walk vigorously. Em relied on Bill or Shirley and
Louise’s son’s family (Mike/Pat) to drive him here and there. He was very hard
of hearing and was known to walk into a fire hydrant, so we know his vision was
poor, but his bones were strong.
In 2015 Em fell and broke his hip. With rehab he quickly
regained much of his strength and coordination, but required a walker to stay
safe. It was no longer possible for him to stay alone in his house so he moved
to Regency Columbia Village Assisted Living.
Shirley and/or Bill visited him most every day
for 3 years and worked with the staff to see that he received the appropriate
care. In June of 2017 he started using a Foley because of incontinence issues. All
this time, Em exercised daily and came to dinner at our house once a week.
In February, 2018, four days before his 100
th
birthday celebration, Em contracted a serious urinary tract infection which
stressed his vital organs. But he began improving within a couple days and was
weak but eager for rehab. The party for Em at Shirley and Bill’s home went on
as planned, but without the guest of honor. His nephews, Don and Rick Bokman flew
in from Cleveland for the party and visited with him in the hospital.
Em’ health declined rapidly on March 5 and he died in the
early morning the next day.
Em was a gentle and kind man, and it was a joy to be in his
company. Em never complained about a thing. He will be remembered as humble and
caring, and very appreciative of the delicious meals his son prepared for him.
Em loved good food and practically inhaled his
meals, likely a sign of never getting enough to eat growing up.
Deceased: Em’s first wife Grace Pavlik, his second wife Eva Louise
Maywhoor; parents, Stephanie and Constantine Ondrechen; his siblings Steve, Catharina
Cymbala, 1 sibling who died very young, Ted, Ann Heatherington, Joe Ondrechen,
Mary Bokman.
Living in 2018; Brother John (Betty), Em’s son Bill Ondrechen
(Shirley Ewing), numerous nieces and nephews and their families.